Showing posts with label Sexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexuality. Show all posts

Thursday, June 28, 2007

Am I a Virgin?

Virginity is a sensitive issue to tackle with but for as long as this is being addressed and handled in a manner that no one was being hurt, i guess it is okay to talk about it. There were various showbiz personalities who openly admit to the public that they are still virgin: Victor Basa, Christian Bautista, Raver Cruz to mentioned a few.....and the newest one is me.....naks....feeling celebrity.

What really is the bases wherein man is considered virgin? If we tried to based it if "kung nakapagpalabas na ba sila nang semilya" then i guess almost men are considered not. If we are to based on sexual relationship, still we need to qualify......if whom you have your relationship: men or women....pumasok ba or hindi....and what if hindi pumasok? Are we consider virgin?

I still have a lot of questions in mind. But in my opinion, virginity doesn't need to be based on the experience (really it counts) but we should keep in mind on our level on understanding on term "sex". The more you know on it, the more you will be considered not a virgin in mind and in action. But if you are an innocent (in all aspect of sex), you are a virgin or inutil....hehehe

What can you say about men being a virgin? When is really the right time for a guy to do it? I am not into premarital sex, but since it's already prevalent in our society, I think, we need not to hurry. The right time happens when we are ready for it. We can do "it" anytime as long as we feel we are prepared for it, prepared to face whatever the consequences of having a sexual relationship.